Why I Chose Somatic Healing & Gentle Yoga
- Tanya Victoria
- Jan 28
- 3 min read
A personal story about reclaiming what yoga was always meant to be
Yoga has become a trend in our culture — and not always in a way that reflects its heart. When many people think of yoga today, they picture hot studios, fast flows, sports bras, leggings, and bodies bending into shapes that look more like performance art than healing. It’s easy to assume yoga is only for the flexible, the fit, the young, or the already‑well.
But that was never what yoga was meant to be.
Yoga was created as a path toward mind–body harmony, a way of living that helps us come home to ourselves. It was never meant to be intimidating. It was never meant to be painful. And it was never meant to be a competition.
I’ve always loved yoga for this reason — because it offered me a way to breathe, soften, and reconnect. But I also knew that the modern yoga world often leaves people behind. Especially people like my mom.
The Moment Everything Changed
My mom avoided yoga for years. Not because she didn’t want to try it, but because so many poses hurt her joints. Most classes moved too fast. Most teachers didn’t offer modifications. And most flows were built around bodies that didn’t look or feel like hers.
One day, she bravely came with me to a class that was advertised as “restorative.” I thought, Finally — something gentle, something accessible, something she can enjoy.
But what happened broke my heart.
The class was the usual scripted flow, full of philosophical language that didn’t land, and poses that were anything but restorative. My mom sat there, uncomfortable and unsure, trying to follow along without any guidance on how to adjust the shapes for her body. She wasn’t given options. She wasn’t given support. She wasn’t given a way in.
I watched her shrink into herself — and I knew this experience might turn her away from yoga completely.
And the thing is… I knew yoga could help her. I knew it could ease her pain. I knew it could support her nervous system. I knew it could give her a sense of peace she deeply deserved.
But the way yoga is often taught simply wasn’t built for her.
That moment changed everything for me.

Why I Chose a Different Path
I decided I didn’t want to teach yoga the way I had seen it taught. I didn’t want to lead fast flows or push people into shapes that didn’t feel safe. I didn’t want to contribute to a culture that made people feel like yoga wasn’t for them.
So I got certified in:
Restorative Yoga
Yin Yoga
Somatic Healing
Not because it was trendy. Not because it was marketable. But because I wanted to help people like my mom — people who deserve a practice that meets them where they are.
People with joint pain. People with emotional overwhelm. People who feel intimidated by traditional yoga spaces. People who want to reconnect with their bodies gently, not forcefully. People in any body and every body.
Yoga is meant to help you feel, not perform. To help you heal, not hustle. To help you come home, not run away.
The Full‑Circle Moment
Today, my mom is one of my regular students.
She moves slowly. She listens to her body. She takes modifications without shame. She breathes deeper. She feels safer. She feels supported. She feels seen.
And every time I watch her settle into a pose with ease — every time I see her soften instead of struggle — I’m reminded why I chose this path.
This is what yoga was always meant to be.
Yoga Is Not a Trend — It’s a Way of Living
Yoga is not about:
the outfit
the heat
the flexibility
the performance
the “yoga body”
Yoga is about:
nervous system regulation
emotional grounding
joint‑friendly movement
breath and presence
connection to self
compassion toward your body
healing from the inside out
Somatic healing and gentle yoga are simply ways of returning yoga to its roots — slow, mindful, accessible, and deeply human.
This is the yoga I believe in. This is the yoga I teach. This is the yoga I want the world to experience.
And if you’ve ever felt like yoga wasn’t for you… I promise, there is a place for you here.



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